Sunday, March 1, 2009

Waiting to be born again!!!!!!!

Get up!!!!!!!!!!
Yawn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Let me sleep
I was flying in the clouds, far away from any sense of reality.

Get up!!!!!!!
I saw the time. It was 5 am .

Get up!!!!!!!! You have to go to Lahore. You will miss the bus
Lahore?
Lahore?????????
How could i forget , I had to catch a bus to Pakistan.

"Are you out of your senses?"
That was the reaction of most of my friends and family members when i expressed the desire to go to Lahore and represent my country in a technical festival and more so be an ambassador of peace.
There is a saying in Lahore in punjabi - "Jinne Lahore nahi dekhya o jamya e nayi " which literally translated into english means - "One who has not seen Lahore has not yet been born"
My persistence and conviction finally paid off. After a lot of deliberation i convinced my family and friends and hence I was finaly going to be born at the age of 21.

Not in the weirdest of my dreams had I ever imagined travelling to Lahore. Lahore - the land of my forefathers who had migrated along with a million of other people when the brutal civil war broke out at the time of partition in 1947.Life had come a full circle.
Since then India and Pakistan have fought each other in the battlefield 3 times.
The relationship between the two countries after independence has for most of times been full of uncertainty and suspicion. Most of it can be attributed to the hardcore religious fanatics on both sides.
The journey from Delhi to Wagah border was very smooth. We had armed jeeps surrounding our bus, which incidentally did not stop at any traffic signal throughout the journey.(All the traffic used was stopped for us to pass through which was made us feel like big shots )
The reality had not sunk in until I reached the border. Lahore was just 30 miles away.
I looked out of my window as we crossed over from one side of Punjab to the other.
Pakistan’s side of Punjab was no different from our side. On both sides of Punjab i could see small children playing cricket in the lush green fields near the highway and the farmers diligently tending to their crops .

The highlight of the trip was the visit to "Lahore Food Street" . Never in my life have I had better food ( And i ave had food at a lot of places , from Ladakh to Kerala , from Jiasalmer to Bhubhaneswar , from London to Ludhiana ). The concept is unique. There are about 40 small shops churning out choicest kebabs , biryanis , sweets and curries . You can sit anywhere and order the best of food from anywhere in the street. My personal favourites - Chicken tikka , fried fish , sardar di machhi , seekh kabab and lassi(sweet curd) .The lassi deserves a special mention. Many a competition were fought between the Indian and Pakistani students on who could drink the huge glass of lassi first , and yours truly came out on top ( being a Punjabi and being a lover of any type of lassi surely helped ;)

Other highlights of the trip -
1. Playing an Indo - Pak cricket match with all the passion and sledging ;)
2. Being linked with Fatima . We were called the Veer Zaara Jodi( the movie had just released) because we kept the 40 odd students waiting for an hour in the bus while both of us roamed around the Anarkali Bazaar in Lahore. Let me clarify it - The allegations were baseless , we had just lost our way !!!!!
3. Being offered "Palak paneer" and "moong ki dal" at a Pakistani home. I never thought that I could get home cooked vegetarian food in Pakistan
4. Playing night golf in Lahore and having hukkah for the first time in my life :)
5. Being one of the first Indians to hear Atif Aslam and the band - Jal. They had just come up with their album "Aadat" in pakistan , which later became a rage in India. I liked another band called E.P (incidentally people behind both these bands had been ex-students of the college that was hosting us) ,though it did not become very popular in India.

It has been around 4 years since we came back from Pakistan feeling like Kings.
Years have gone by , both of our countries are once again at loggerheads.Massacres like Mumbai have happened .War #4 does not seem to be far away. Taliban adds a whole new dimension to the current scenario. But something that gives me hope is the educated middle class in Pakistan. The students that i met there had a vision , they were not religious fanatics , they were like us . They thought like us , they wanted freedom too , they wanted democracy .They fought for democracy in Pakistan when Musharaf was committing atrocities against the judiciary. They used mediums like blogs to promote the need for democracy in their country.
I believe the hope rests on their shoulders .

Till then i wait to be born again..............................

33 comments:

  1. Mr connoisseur, finally you have written a post showing your proclivity towards food :-p.
    I think its great you have had a trip to pakistan as i don think we would be able to go there anymore. And about situation in pakisatn, well, the more you talk about it , the more dumb you feel as you will never be able to solve it... All in all, your best laid out blog

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  2. hey saurav...gud 2 see a lighter version:)...u kept it short nd simple...which in my mind was important bcoz it touches some real important issues...gud job...keep it up...waiting for d next 1:)...God bless!!!

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  3. Great post dude. You have touched an important topic. Really, it the issue that has been going on for more than 60 years and still nobody knows when this would end.

    Your style of writing is getting better day by day. Keep posting.

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  4. I woke up today and saw video of Sri Lankan cricketers being fired at in Lahore by terrorists.Its deeply condemnable.I think the time has come to act. The miscreants who are commiting these crimes in the name of religion should be ashamed and realise that no religion promotes violence on innocent people.
    Taliban is growing towards the east .......

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  6. Hey Saurav...I wont compliment you on your wonderful writing skills or how beautifully you express your feelings in words..but I would like to tell you that from each of your blogpost it reflects the wonderful persona you are.. which makes you great at words too..becz writing good is not about how beautifully we choose words bout about how deep we feel things to be expressed. And particularly this post..am again speachless ..you wont belive me bt its true..cz this is exactly what babaji taught us all..that nations are only boundaries..religions are only way to reach same god..all humans are same and hungry for true love!!

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  7. Hey Saurav...nice blog...however strangely the terrorists are no longer uneducated people...they r educated, well aware of technology...so i wont agree with u that religious fanaticism does not exist among the educated...I am not pointing at ur friends u met in lahore:)

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  8. hey thats lik ultra kewl..u mus b knowin wich part of it i liked the most,ofcourse the description of the food there...i have already heard bout it wen v first met but still it sounds refreshin...amazin work dude...next time u need a company u kno who to call

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  9. Anji - I agree that even educated people are getting brainwashed and becoming terorists , but look at the percentage of such people.Once they will get world class education , the religious fanatics will find it more diffiult to brainwash them.

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  10. Anandita - One foodie to the other - Though I know that there is no possibility of going to Pakistan any time soon , the food in Lahore is simply AMAZING :)

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  11. Raman - Mr connoisseur will miss the food in Lahore

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  12. Anubhav - Thanks for the constant encouragement

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  13. Chintu - I think its one of biggest issues facing our nation.Instability in our neighbourhood would be fatal for us too

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  14. Rafael - I hope all of you are doing fine in Lahore

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  15. Shuchi - Your words should inspire people to believe in love rather than fill their hearts with hatred.And thanks for all your compliments :)

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  16. hey Saurav,
    After so much deliberation I have finally been able to read and comment. I wont compliment you on your magnificent writing skill or anything of the similar kind because there isn't any.....;) lols just kidding. but its a very feel good post mate,you are amongst the lucky few who got the chance to visit the otherside of the border. I am just dreaming of it. I could imagine the whole scenery in front of me while I was reading through and I guess thats the best part of writing, forcing the reader to think and imagine. and once again as I said earlier,the feel good factor is very high:-).Please clarify is that Veer zara story completely baseless:-)
    happy writing
    Neha

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  17. well it feels good to read about your experience , u have actually gone to that place, where once even my grandparents used to live and used to relive their past in their stories but for now it seems like a distant place where one can only dream to visit based on current situation.

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  18. very descriptive and written in lighter tone... this blog shows that u r good at describing different places , their food and people...so a new dimesnion in ur blog writing and u have very convincingly written abt a imp issue of indo-pak relations....a well structured blog ...looking forward to ur next post.

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  19. Neha - Thanks for the lovely comments.I think i am extremely lucky to have seen Lahore. I don't think there will be any one going there in the coming years.The Veer Zaara story is indeed baseless ;)

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  20. Ashita - Our grandparents lost their homes , gold , cattle when partition happened. I wish that they could go back there

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  21. Aditi - I purposely wanted to write something on a lighter tone.And the trip toPakistan has been one of my best trips so far

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  22. Hey buddyy its great.......really well written.
    Description of food........the atif aslam band.
    great yaar........and more over the love that the two countries share..........Mirror images
    but the insanity of human being demarkating the areas......the terrorist strikes,the cruel and undefined politics..converting all the good work of great people into a complete fiasco.............

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  23. Saurabh - You explained the situation very well. Even if there is love between people , some radical elements spread hatred in the name of religion. You sometime feel helpless, but i think all of us should do our bit to spread peace and love around

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  24. You have a remarkable writing style.I too could imagine how you must have felt while in Pakistan. Recently, i saw the movie- 'Khuda ke liye' and therefore agree with you that the youth in Pakistan are just like any of us and want a peaceful life.

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  25. Pragya - First of all welcome to my den :). Thanks for the compliments. I think that movie completely describes the youth of pakistan today . They are fed up with the fanaticism and brainwashing that is being done.They want peace and prosperity like all of us

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  26. well according to the Lahoris ..I havent even been born yet..but still i am managing to write u a comment..so this is special effort.. jokes apart ..i really enjoyed this post....the style is casual and refershing.Highlights of the posts:sardar di machchi,lassi,Punjabi munda Saurav(urf Veer) and Anarkali in Fatima Bazaar..oops! Saurav,Fatima and Anarkali in a Bazaar..ohh this is going bizarre. ;) keep it up!
    p.s. oye! Zara bhi toh thi :P

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  27. Taniya - I see where you are going with your comments :) , but let me clarify that veer zaara never happened ;)

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  29. I have never been to Lahore, but this post has given a new dimension to my imagination about Pakistan. Thanks for that...
    I hope that our future generations grow seeing a better picture of Indo-Pakistan relationship.
    A special thanks for the add-ons.

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  30. Payal - Most of us today don't see the better side.We are taught to hate each other from our childhood.I think our future generations should strive to establish a cordial relationship between us and Pakistani people

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  31. wish i had gone to Lahore when the times were good! Anyways nice to see you raising some important issues along with the fun and frolic.

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  32. Pandey - I think that was one my best trips ever. We were the ambassadors of India visiting Pakistan and it felt special as this trip meant more than just a visit to place. It helped in someways to improve the relationship between the two countries.
    I feel bad when i see the turmoil in Pakistan.The people of that country deserve something better than terrorists and corrupt millitary generals

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